The Little Things ….are the Big Things  

I have a favorite poem that I have often used at weddings over the years. It is called “The Art of Marriage” but I think it could be called “The Art of Relationship” just as well. The first two lines go like this: “Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens. A good marriage must be created. In marriage, the little things are the big things.”

I think about these words often, because I like to think that we care enough about each other to notice that our response to one another is so often based on the way we are thinking about the little things that happen between us and the people we live with and see daily and weekly at home, at play, and at work. Of course, this is not necessarily true; even though we may be making kind gestures to each other daily, many go unnoticed or are taken for granted.

Considering that Thanksgiving is coming up soon, may I suggest that each day we give at least one heartfelt “thank you” to someone who has made a gesture of kindness to us, perhaps making our lives just a little bit more delightful and easier. Doing this makes us, as well as another, feel better. Let’s not just express what we are thankful for but also who we are thankful for in our lives. You might be surprised how much someone we meet is trying to make our day better. I attempt to notice this as often as possible. It does take a certain amount of care, awareness, and mindfulness. Have fun!

As our Holidays come closer, there are lots of events at Interfaith that will give us all opportunities to practice and be aware of kindness and to express our gratitude. Information is on our website at interfaithspirit.org. Kindly join us!

Blessings and thank you,

Annie